Right Relationship: A Return to the I Am Within
During my Soul Alchemy Rebirth retreat, as we entered the ritual of egg divination, the egg landed on the word "Right relationship." As I wrote it, it felt foreign to me, not the language I would normally use, not the way I would speak. And yet, I trusted what was coming through my hands. At the closing ceremony, I threw the egg down the hill, and it landed again on that same profound message: Right relationship.
In the days that followed, as I sat alone, my thoughts and my feelings began to gently caress the meaning. What is right relationship? I did not rush the answer. I let it unfold. And when I felt ready, I closed my eyes, opened my heart, and connected to my divine pillar, the I Am Presence, woven with my own divine presence, and from this place, this message came through.
When I asked, what is right relationship, I listened for that small voice within, beginning to feel the divine intelligence from my guides. I expanded deeper into the I Am that I Am Presence, and I began to understand that right relationship has to do with the relationship within myself, to my own Divine Presence, to the I Am Presence within the sacred flame of my heart.
From this deeper space within, the patterns and paradigms I once held about relationships begin to reorganize. What once felt confusing becomes clear. What once felt entangled begins to soften and fall into its rightful place, guided by a deeper sense of truth and inner knowing.
But first, as I also received the Angel of Self Love, I am reminded that self-love is the practice of developing, nurturing, and honoring this right relationship within. With self-love comes self-care, self-healing, and freedom. We begin to see ourselves as vessels of the Divine, as this presence moves into our holy hearts of self-acceptance and peace.
As the Angel of Discipline came to me, I understood that discipline is not force, but devotion. It is the path of the disciple, where the body becomes the robe, and each choice creates a fold of living resonance. These folds form a pattern of awareness, a way of walking that mirrors the teachings of the Eightfold Path of Buddhism, not as structure, but as a living field of alignment.
The Eightfold Path is not a set of rules. It is a way of walking. A way of returning.
• Right View, seeing clearly without distortion
• Right Intention, choosing from the heart
• Right Speech, speaking truth with care
• Right Action, moving with integrity
• Right Livelihood, aligning with purpose
• Right Effort, tending what is alive without force
• Right Mindfulness, being present with what is
• Right Concentration, anchoring into awareness
This is the architecture of right relationship.
And here, we say right not as judgment, not as right or wrong, but as an energetic signature of truth. The truth of the I Am. The truth of the path. The path of the disciple wearing the eightfold robe.
Those who walk the path of the disciple do not lose anything; they gain freedom. For this path is not one of sacrifice, but of release. And in this release, the path reveals itself as a doorway into self-discovery, a remembering of what has always been within.
Light language:
Aki Alamon
Atashiti
Yaladakti
For the right relationship is the divine relationship with the self, as you become the true twin flame within, the masculine and the feminine aspects of your heart, your mind, your soul, woven together. Right relationship is woven into the I Am pillar, the Holy Trinity within, and as this weaving stabilizes, there is less seeking outside and more listening within. Less grasping for connection and more becoming connection. You begin to feel that relationship is not something you enter. It is something you are.
And from this place, you no longer ask, “Who is right for me?” You begin to ask: Am I in right relationship with myself, with my truth, with this moment? And in that asking, clarity arrives without force. Discernment becomes natural. Boundaries become clean. Love becomes spacious. Not something you hold, but something that moves through you.
So my message to you, and to myself, is to follow the path of right relationship. To walk it. To breathe it. To return to it again and again. For this leads you to the path of all, as you connect to your sovereignty, your wise self, as you open your channels to receive.
And in this receiving, you remember that you were never separate from the path. You are the path.
Hiya kotoshi alamati.
And so it is. And so it is. And so it shall be.
Kellie AmaLiana
I want to acknowledge my dear friend and mentor, Janet Elshianna’s beautiful Angel Cards. Here is a link to get your own deck.
